Amelia on Sex

     A beloved teacher reminds me that we do not have to chase the experiences that are right for us. They come to us, effortlessly. I have observed so many men step to me and other women seeking a sexual experience. Chasing it. I know they are in their nature. I have chased. No judgment necessary, just a response.

     I am a spirit-woman- Spirit manifest- and so a spiritualized experience "he" will get......if he gets it, which he almost always doesn't, because he is guided by a lower-self agenda, while I am drawn to the highest pleasures, explorings, combinings, and transcendences.

     Many men think this type of presence and performance equates or will lead to some sort of commitment, and reserve it for "serious" relationships. Yes, it does lead to a commitment, but not the one they're thinking. It's a commitment to raising the barre, seriously. It's a commitment to acts of self-respect and integrity, seriously. It's extra effort, more sweet and special treatment, and firm honesty and courage, seriously. Certainly, it can be for just one night, but it will bring the pleasure of many! SERIOUSLY!!!

     The woman worthy of this (well, all are worthy, but not all are prepared) will have the same to offer, graciously and generously. Both lovers will be free of expectations, clear in boundaries, and given entirely to the innumerable possibilities of "what is."

     Here is the best part-
Necessary communication will take place previous to the Great Getting It On. This is what separates the men from the boys! The Prince makes his mistake and learns his lesson. The King already knows his mistakes, and implements his learnedness prophylactically. This action is rooted in love and esteem for Self, and ultimately, other. The seasoned, righteous man knows he will reach greater heights with a willing and informed partner.

     In my case, the creative energy retained in celibacy yields a power which drives my art. There is nothing I want more, for my art is my expression of God. The creative energy of sex can do the same, given the above mentioned aspects are in place.

     If "he" does get it, it's because it was always going to be art. I show up energetic and creative for art. I mean, sex is at least a dance, if not a song, a chant, an improv performance piece. At LEAST! Offer me no less!

     So, in closing, when and if you step to me and other amazing women, be creative and prepared, with dope skills, good supplies, and tons of RESPECT AND INTEGRITY. You get what you give, and that could get deliciously literal and magnificent real fast!

     Thank You.

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